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	<title>Comments on: Love Your Self</title>
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		<title>By: Kirstie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kirstie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 16:52:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BAM! Another sensible thought in a world full of BS(and I ain&#039;t talkin degrees)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BAM! Another sensible thought in a world full of BS(and I ain&#8217;t talkin degrees)</p>
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		<title>By: lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 22:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;until their perspectives and positions are challenged by someone or something perceived as more “together.” When that happens, doubt sets in and we start measuring ourselves against the people we think we want to be like.&quot;

Yup.

Fortunately with Twitter and FB, it is very easy to see after awhile that being like &#039;her&#039; or &#039;them&#039; is not really all it&#039;s cracked up to be. 

I love this post. We all have our insecurities and flaws, but we also have great gifts to offer the world once we own what we&#039;ve already been blessed with. This is not to say we can&#039;t learn from other people. We should. Sometimes it&#039;s what to do. Sometimes, it&#039;s what not to do! But trying to be them is just a waste of time when we already have something unique to contribute.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;until their perspectives and positions are challenged by someone or something perceived as more “together.” When that happens, doubt sets in and we start measuring ourselves against the people we think we want to be like.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yup.</p>
<p>Fortunately with Twitter and FB, it is very easy to see after awhile that being like &#8216;her&#8217; or &#8216;them&#8217; is not really all it&#8217;s cracked up to be. </p>
<p>I love this post. We all have our insecurities and flaws, but we also have great gifts to offer the world once we own what we&#8217;ve already been blessed with. This is not to say we can&#8217;t learn from other people. We should. Sometimes it&#8217;s what to do. Sometimes, it&#8217;s what not to do! But trying to be them is just a waste of time when we already have something unique to contribute.</p>
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		<title>By: pre_k</title>
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		<dc:creator>pre_k</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sometimes one has to believe alone in what one believes in.  the way i look at it money (probably a year or two of salary) is a small price to pay in order to pursue a sincere dream. if worse comes to worse and it doesn&#039;t work out your credentials and experience will get you back into a corporate office if you so choose.  I say you got a hell of a back up plan if you choose not to pursue your dreams, so go for it.. piece and blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sometimes one has to believe alone in what one believes in.  the way i look at it money (probably a year or two of salary) is a small price to pay in order to pursue a sincere dream. if worse comes to worse and it doesn&#8217;t work out your credentials and experience will get you back into a corporate office if you so choose.  I say you got a hell of a back up plan if you choose not to pursue your dreams, so go for it.. piece and blessings.</p>
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		<title>By: The Jaded NYer</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Jaded NYer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 03:15:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are worse things in life than being a fulltime bartender. I think that&#039;s a pretty cool gig, actually. If I could stand people more I might consider it myself. As it stands, I&#039;d be more likely to throw a drink in someone&#039;s face than make it LOL

Now, loving myself? Sheesh... that&#039;s a tall order. But I&#039;m down for it. I have YEARS of self-hate to overcome but I think I&#039;m already down this road to self-love, and have been since the day I gave up trying to have &quot;white girl hair&quot; and accepted that face that looks back at me in the mirror as a pretty one. Just gotta work on personality, morals, ideals and on what&#039;s going on from the neck down now LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are worse things in life than being a fulltime bartender. I think that&#8217;s a pretty cool gig, actually. If I could stand people more I might consider it myself. As it stands, I&#8217;d be more likely to throw a drink in someone&#8217;s face than make it LOL</p>
<p>Now, loving myself? Sheesh&#8230; that&#8217;s a tall order. But I&#8217;m down for it. I have YEARS of self-hate to overcome but I think I&#8217;m already down this road to self-love, and have been since the day I gave up trying to have &#8220;white girl hair&#8221; and accepted that face that looks back at me in the mirror as a pretty one. Just gotta work on personality, morals, ideals and on what&#8217;s going on from the neck down now LOL</p>
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		<title>By: Muze</title>
		<link>http://www.ambercabral.com/2010/07/love-your-self/comment-page-1/#comment-145</link>
		<dc:creator>Muze</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 12:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i heart you for this post.

i tell people all the time, i&#039;ve avoided corporate life for a reason. i did that once, and never again if i can help it. only when i start my publishing company do i plan on being cooped up in an office for half of my day. lol. and even then, not if i can help it...

hand claps, toe taps, and mad dap for this one.

ciao!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i heart you for this post.</p>
<p>i tell people all the time, i&#8217;ve avoided corporate life for a reason. i did that once, and never again if i can help it. only when i start my publishing company do i plan on being cooped up in an office for half of my day. lol. and even then, not if i can help it&#8230;</p>
<p>hand claps, toe taps, and mad dap for this one.</p>
<p>ciao!</p>
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